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#1 Old 02-14-2005, 01:55 PM
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This link inspired me to start this thread for the ladies & men of VB.



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What are your good kiss/bad kiss stories?
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Starts of slow and soft..closed mouth or slightly parted...More of an invitation to kiss, or a question (rather then a statement), really.

Mouth cant be open tooooo wide...I had a guy whose lips were AROUND my lips..nasty.

Tongue should kinda be soft...not "invasive" and certainly not down my throat.



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Starts of slow and soft..closed mouth or slightly parted...More of an invitation to kiss, or a question (rather then a statement), really.

Mouth cant be open tooooo wide...I had a guy whose lips were AROUND my lips..nasty.

Tongue should kinda be soft...not "invasive" and certainly not down my throat.



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100% agree ^^^



That IS the perfect kiss!!
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It easier to say what is not a good kiss, unfortunately. For me, there is not really any formula. It depends on mood, partly.
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My first kiss was fantastic. I was a freshman in high school and my boyfriend was a year older. We were sitting in the snow on Mt. Baker looking over the north Cascade region, talking and laughing. It was a gorgeous day - bright, sunny and clear. He leaned over and gave me the most gentle kiss a girl could ask for. It rocked. I remember looking over the view and vowing to never forget that moment.
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Is that a picture of him in your avatar?



sorry, couldn't resist.
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LOL! If only I was with someone who had such fine facial hair.
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#8 Old 02-14-2005, 05:18 PM
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A good kiss is given by someone who loves me.

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*noticing lack of response from guys here*.....I for one think that some of the best kisses have nothing to do with the tongue. Sure, it's nice, but not every time. The soft ones are the best, but I won't lie and say that when a girl grabs me and plants one of those "toe-curling" type kisses isn't really nice too.

As far as a story, I don't really have too many interesting ones. I did date a girl for a while in high school who always did this weird thing that when we'd be about to stop kissing, she'd bite my bottom lip (softly) every time. I didn't mind it, but I thought it was a little odd.
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It's interesting how many people focus on the physical side of the kiss, rather than the emotional one.

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A good kiss is given by someone who loves me.



That is SO true!



It's not a matter of technique (and neither is sex, IMO) but a matter of a whole lot of factors, mostly emotional. If you're with someone you're really excited about, it makes the kiss better. If you feel like they really are into you, understand you, and want you to be happy, it makes the kiss better.



And if you have all that, then really, the only way the kiss wouldn't be good is where the discussion of technique would begin. You can't really learn to give a great kiss, but you can learn to not screw up a great kiss. (One girl, who had this angry side to side windshield wiper tongue kiss comes to mind...)







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Bad kiss story:

I was out for the first time with a guy that I thougt was SOOOO cute, and I was really hoping to get a kiss at the end of the night. When it was time to say goodbye, he started giving me these funny little pecks, like grandma kisses, and then suddenly stuck his tongue as far down my throat as it would go. Then he went back to the grandma kisses, and then with the tongue again! He went back and forth like this a couple of times, and then I couldn't help myself. I started to laugh out loud. It was the most hilarious kiss I have ever recieved!
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I think that the feeling in the air at the moment is every bit as important as the kiss itself. Personally, I have no desire to kiss somebody that I am not emotionally connected to. I want to breathe in their breath and taste the closeness we feel.

My first kiss was horrible. We were both terrible and too embarrassed at the time to say so. However, we stayed together for a couple of years and became quite good at it. Our first good kiss happened while we were making love. It was a very intimate moment and we were all about feeling the pleasure of it. I dont remember if he leaned down to kiss me or if I leaned up, but our mouths met and it was ecstasy. We were still kissing as we finished.



Lately, when I think of kissing, I feel myself wanting to be in control of it and savoring the moment. I want to sit straddling a man and lean forward to kiss the corners of his mouth. When he reaches up to hold me I want to shake my head and be obeyed. When he tries to kiss me back, I want to tell him no, to just let me have my way. I want to move from the right corner across to the left with light trailing of my tongue. Then I want to run the tip along his top lip and then softly take his bottom lip between my own and nip it gently. Next, I want his lips to part just enough for my tongue to linger inside, running over his gums, the roof of his mouth and then petting his tongue. I want to explore him. Then I want him to kiss me back - our tongues moving together. I want to hold his head in my hands and feel his hair between my fingers and I want his hands pressing into the small of my back. I want our bodies to push against each other and the kissing turn to hungry passion.

And Id like for other stuff to follow that without the kissing stopping.
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I've yet to have a good kiss. They've always been initated by the girl and caught me off guard.
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mmmm...I'll let you know
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Geez Louise Erin.

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Bad kiss - My tongue ring got stuck on his tongue ring. Very embarrassing.
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Geez Louise Erin.



No doubt! That was pretty....erm.....uh.....memorable, Erin.
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Bad Kiss Story: This guy started kissing my mouth, nose, chin and then proceeded to lick my forehead.
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This link inspired me to start this thread for the ladies & men of VB.



http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmp...ife_kissing_dc



What are your good kiss/bad kiss stories?



Ah...salt in another wound of mine.



I'll let you know when I finally kiss.
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It's interesting how many people focus on the physical side of the kiss, rather than the emotional one.



Not me. I am all about an emotional kiss.



There is one kiss that will stick with me forever. I was in high school and it was with a guy who put his heart and soul into the kiss and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. I had yet to find another kiss that took my breathe away like that one... until now. The guy I'm currently dating has VERY emotional kisses also. I am in heaven everytime our lips touch. So crazy.
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any kiss from me is a good kiss, by definition.
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any kiss from me is a good kiss, by definition.



It's true.







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Geez Louise Erin.



Yeah, I'd have to agree with Jen. I read that and then was all "damn, he's at work!".



I think my best kiss ever was the first one I got from my husband. It was our first date and we had hugged goodbye and were separating and then he looked at me and tilted his face to kiss me. As soon as our lips connected and he realized I really wanted him to kiss me, he wove his fingers into my hair and pulled me in and really kissed me. Which was good cause him holding my hair was about the only thing keeping me falling on the pavement as my knees had pretty much given out. *sigh*



My worst kisses were from a boy who I had a crush on for most of my teenage years. We graduated and (finally) started dating for the summer. His kisses were just too sloppy. Sloppy like the underside of my chin would be wet.
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he wove his fingers into my hair and pulled me in and really kissed me. Which was good cause him holding my hair was about the only thing keeping me falling on the pavement as my knees had pretty much given out.

awww
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I'm not sure, maybe I should watch some porn movies to get a few pointers!



Actually, the only kinds of kisses I am overly fond of are Mr. Meatless kisses and kitty kisses.
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I'm not sure, maybe I should watch some porn movies to get a few pointers!



Actually, the only kinds of kisses I am overly fond of are Mr. Meatless kisses and kitty kisses.





There's nothing better than kitty kisses.
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Bad kisses:



My first kiss was in 5th grade during spin-the-bottle. The kid I kissed had his eyes tightly shut and kissed me as if he was kissing a lemon. I guess he wasn't really ready for kissing yet...



A guy friend who I was basically in love with for a long time kissed me when we were both drunk at a party. I didn't even expect tongue, but he sort of rammed it in there. That was unpleasant.



A guy I dated a couple of years ago used to kind of gnaw on my bottom lip when we were making out. It didn't hurt that much when he was doing it, but then my lip would be completely bruised for a couple of days afterwards. A friend of mine said it looked like I'd been eating blueberry pie. Embarrassing! When I complained to him about it he just shrugged and said, "oh yeah, I do that," as if he had no intention of not doing it again. That relationship lasted about 2 weeks...



I don't really have any good kiss "stories", but I enjoy my bf's kisses because I love him, and because, even though he could probably improve his technique, he's a considerate kisser.
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