I think that the feeling in the air at the moment is every bit as important as the kiss itself. Personally, I have no desire to kiss somebody that I am not emotionally connected to. I want to breathe in their breath and taste the closeness we feel.
My first kiss was horrible. We were both terrible and too embarrassed at the time to say so. However, we stayed together for a couple of years and became quite good at it. Our first good kiss happened while we were making love. It was a very intimate moment and we were all about feeling the pleasure of it. I dont remember if he leaned down to kiss me or if I leaned up, but our mouths met and it was ecstasy. We were still kissing as we finished.
Lately, when I think of kissing, I feel myself wanting to be in control of it and savoring the moment. I want to sit straddling a man and lean forward to kiss the corners of his mouth. When he reaches up to hold me I want to shake my head and be obeyed. When he tries to kiss me back, I want to tell him no, to just let me have my way. I want to move from the right corner across to the left with light trailing of my tongue. Then I want to run the tip along his top lip and then softly take his bottom lip between my own and nip it gently. Next, I want his lips to part just enough for my tongue to linger inside, running over his gums, the roof of his mouth and then petting his tongue. I want to explore him. Then I want him to kiss me back - our tongues moving together. I want to hold his head in my hands and feel his hair between my fingers and I want his hands pressing into the small of my back. I want our bodies to push against each other and the kissing turn to hungry passion.
And Id like for other stuff to follow that without the kissing stopping.