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I have been with people outside of my sexual preference 0 0%
I'm Bi, everyone who is attractive is my preference 0 0%
I've dabbled in kinky stuff 0 0%
I tried vanilla stuff 0 0%
I can't even spell vanilla 0 0%
I am too embarrassed to answer 0 0%
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#1 Old 09-08-2004, 09:51 AM
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#2 Old 09-08-2004, 10:08 AM
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He, I'll be the peanut gallery for this one. I'm bi and that line does not describe my preference. (Which is for good intimate friendships leading to boinking.)
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#3 Old 09-08-2004, 10:14 AM
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He, I'll be the peanut gallery for this one. I'm bi and that line does not describe my preference. (Which is for good intimate friendships leading to boinking.)



Would you say most bi people gravitate more to one sex then the other?

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I can answer all, that's not an option though.
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#5 Old 09-08-2004, 10:36 AM
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Same here, I can answer alot of those, except for the last one, clearly.
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I tried some kinky stuff after years of feeling afraid to do anything about it.



Ironically, I didn't find it exciting.



Straight, boring, and vanilla after all .....



Good conversation, and a nice smile remain my biggest turn ons

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Would you say most bi people gravitate more to one sex then the other?



Many do, some don't. I'm just worried that the phrase can be read in such a way to validate that bi folk would do anything that moves.
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What poll are we going to see next?



'Whats YOUR favorite position?'



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What would be defined as kinky? I think that I am pretty vanilla...
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What would be defined as kinky? I think that I am pretty vanilla...



Good question.



I am tempted to say that if accessories are required then you left the realm of vanilladom

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Should be a checkbox poll.



I interpreted "everyone who is attractive is my preference" to mean, everyone who is attractive to me. Which narrows the field down from "anything that moves" to "one certain nip-libbler of my aquaintence."
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i'm bi and kinky!!! i didn't know what to answer.



also, if you're sore in odd places the next morning you may have stumbled into kinky. if you have a collar that doesn't belong to the dog....
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I've done some kanky (yeah i said kanky) things in my day.
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I tried some kinky stuff after years of feeling afraid to do anything about it.



Ironically, I didn't find it exciting.



Straight, boring, and vanilla after all .....



Good conversation, and a nice smile remain my biggest turn ons



Same here!
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I didnt realize we had so many bisexuals here. *thinks about a bi VB party*
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What is this vanilla thing?



Where's the "I haven't done any of the above" option?
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Hehe...I like kinky.



Yeah, and I don't know what the vanilla thing is supposed to mean either!
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vanilla as opposed to, say, rocky road.
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I have tried kinky but ended up pretty vanilla. I like silly more than kinky.
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I like silly more than kinky.



Hey now clown sex, that is kinky.
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vanilla as opposed to, say, rocky road.



That would be "romance".....not "sex"

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vanilla as opposed to, say, rocky road.



That would be "romance", not "sex"

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Vanilla is a term used in the swinging lifestyle meaning conventional couples, conventional sex. I'm sure there are other definitions, but that is the one I'm familiar with.
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According to what I've read, and I could be wrong, "vanilla" means traditional conventional missionary position sex. The opposite of vanilla is chocolate, which encompasses everything from light kink to down and dirty full-on bondage, S&M, etc.



I have also heard it described that vanilla sex is het and chocolate sex is homosexual, but to me, that sounds like the person is trying to say homosexual sex is unconventional, unnatural, etc, and I don't like that.



I'm bi, and I've probably tried most of the normal stuff and even a little light kink, but right now, the thing that really gets my motor running is my super smart, super sexy guy. He came home from Karate the other night and he looked so hot in that gi...and the v-neck is so convenient for pulling aside so I can... *coughs*



That's probably more than you wanted to know.



At any rate, I think sexual experimentation is cool. As long as no one gets hurt (non-consensually hurt, anyway) it's all good. Personally, pain doesn't do anything for me, but what consenting adults do with or to each other is all copacetic.



Of course, I'm monogamous with my sweet guy, so all experimentation is now being conducted with him.

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This really should be a checkbox. I am lot's of those.

"I've been with ppl outside of my sexual preference", kind of... I guess that's me. I'm not really bi, I prefer being with men than women, but if I'm with myself, I usually am thinking about other women.

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Haha nice job making it so people can see your vote. No chance of a vote now, I probably have aquantances that read this site!
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And - just a quick tip for those kinky minded souls:

Don't let yourself be handcuffed to a column in someone's front hall even if they swear their roomate said they would be out all night! (Unless you enjoy the thrill of possibly being caught )

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Many do, some don't. I'm just worried that the phrase can be read in such a way to validate that bi folk would do anything that moves.

That was why I didn't chose the bi option - "a hole's a goal" doesn't exactly describe my sensitive, monogamous nature...
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