What makes a person a "loser"?
I feel that I am. I have almost no friends in RL (1 that lives on the other side of town as me that I see 1-3x a year b/c we don't have cars, but email often, 1 I work with and am "friendly" with, 1 that I used to work with, who I see 1-3x a year b/c he travels 75% of the time for work, and my BF), I rarely do anything that doesn't involve a) the internet b) geeky things (like my bf and I venting about world affairs, discussing his interest in nanotechnology, our love of trees, etc) c) discussing children d) whining that I hate my roommates e) writing f) movies.
I listen to people my age, who are out partying all the time, who have scores of friends, who have spur-of-the-moment parties at their houses. I don't have that. I would love to have dinner parties, but no one seems to ever want to have them with me. It's sometimes difficult to not be a little sad over it.
However, I would assume that, since this is the internet, there are other losers like me on the board, whose entire social life is based on this place