No only no, I won't do any shopping on BF, but...well, you probably can guess the rest of it. Our family is so big (my parents have 4 kids, one is married and has 2 step daughter and a step granddaughter, another is married and has 2 sons)--I just buy for the kids, small and flat gifts (books, etc.) And a white elephant for our New Year's trip. I tend to do my shopping in August when it's less crowded and hectic.
Anytime I think I'm perfect, I remember that my cousin lives on an island, and I've never walked over to visit her.