Krista, you are tougher than they are, you just don't know it. Think how much you have gone through in your life already. Are you going to let these slimes defeat you after all you have over come in your life? You are one of the toughest people on this board. They may be even having bad feelings against you because you stole their thunder at the Christmas party. They thought you were a victim and you walked in like you owned the place. Keep in your mind at all times who the most beautiful woman in that office is and walk like it, talk like it. Become it in everything you do, especially your reactions to what ever they say. You are the queen of beauty, intelligence, and honor. They are just peasants, and they can never come close to the woman you are. Remember it, breathe it in, believe it, say it to yourself in the mirror every time you look. Walk like you are royalty. Think like you are royalty. Believe it.