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#1 Old 04-10-2012, 04:14 PM
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\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t \t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tToday a grand jury in Orange County indicted 25-year-old Jessica Vega on a charge most unusual: lying about having terminal cancer so she could have a gigantic, free wedding. When Vega didn't die as promised, suspicions were aroused, her husband divorced her, and the bride found herself in trouble with the law. But Vega's not the first lady to lie about having cancer in order to cash in on well-wishers' good intentions. Far from it. Turns out, lying about cancer for the donation money is its own little cottage industry.
In 2010, Vega told friends, neighbors, and loved ones that she was dying of leukemia, and her Cancer Wish was to get married to the father of her young daughter before she Nicholas Sparked off into the great beyond. Her neighbors bought the tale (because what kind of ass lies about having cancer?) and donated tens of thousands of dollars worth of goods, services, and cold, hard cash to the needy, tragic couple. They raised so much money that the couple was able to embark on a "dream honeymoon" to Aruba. Four months later, when she explained to local media that she'd made the whole thing up, people were upset. And now she's being held on a $10,000 bail.

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#2 Old 04-10-2012, 04:18 PM
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Yup and there's a lot of them, and for some reason it's almost always women, or at least all we hear about, i've never seen a story on a man that's done this, i've seen stories on some of those women never on the men. I wonder if all the people that do it have like the same mental or personality disorder or something.
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Ooh, not cancer, but reminds me of a lady (from my area in the world) who lied about being pregnant with a kid with some disorder or illness or something and wasn't going to get an abortion, then gave birth, and the "kid" died. What got her found out was that she posted a picture of the "baby" on her blog, and one of the commenters noticed that the "baby" was actually one of those detailed baby dolls that look super real, and the commenter had the same one. Lemme find an article.

Edit: Her name is Rebeccah Beushausen.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/0..._n_214745.html
Edit: She never really got any money from it though, but got letters and gifts: http://www.stuff.co.nz/world/2507935...d-to-attention

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I used to work with someone who did that. She looked about 6 months pregnant or so, all belly, not fat. Coworkers gave her a baby shower and she got pricey gifts.

Then her belly just never got bigger & she never gave birth. Coworkers were asking what was happening. One day I gave her a ride home and she told me the baby died inside her but she refused to have it "removed". I was a teenager at the time and could not fathom this.

Coworkers were mad I gave "the liar" a ride, claimed there were other signs she was lying & pressured her to return the gifts. She finally quit, w/o returning the gifts.

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Sometimes when people feel cheated by life and powerless to get ahead legitimately, they do things like this.
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Yup and there's a lot of them, and for some reason it's almost always women, or at least all we hear about, i've never seen a story on a man that's done this, i've seen stories on some of those women never on the men. I wonder if all the people that do it have like the same mental or personality disorder or something.

I feel like men who want to get ahead illegitimately would sooner go mug some random people, basically just resort to criminal behaviour. I guess this is women's way of being a criminal? lol

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I feel like men who want to get ahead illegitimately would sooner go mug some random people, basically just resort to criminal behaviour. I guess this is women's way of being a criminal? lol

Maybe it's her idea of an acting gig?
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Sadly, this sort of thing is exactly the reason I never donate to anything I'm too skeptical of people.
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Someone has to be messed up to tell their fiance that they have cancer, when they don't. I feel sorry for her. She's got mental problems.
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When I worked retail I had a coworker do this. We all believed her cancer story and like one of the women in the article she also shaved her head. She would frequently take days off for "chemo treatments" and sometimes wore a bandana over her shaved head. We held a fundraiser for her raising thousands of dollars. The day our manager handed her the check was the last day anyone ever saw her again. She disappeared and we later found out she was a professional scam artist when the cops showed up looking for her.

Getting scammed out of money is awful enough but it's the ****ing with people's emotions and sympathies that gets me the most.
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This is disgusting.
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As someone who was very recently diagnosed with cancer, I find this to be extremely disgusting.

My doctor gave me some info on people to contact for financial assistance because I'm worried about the medical bills along with the normal bills, and I just can't fathom lying about this to make money for a honeymoon or other such bull****.

Hope all goes well for you!!
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One day I gave her a ride home and she told me the baby died inside her but she refused to have it "removed".

I think I would have found that more uncomfortable than lying for free stuff, if it were true. Like... what the holy ****...

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I think I would have found that more uncomfortable than lying for free stuff, if it were true. Like... what the holy ****...

Prepare to throw up in your mouth a little...

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Prepare to throw up in your mouth a little...

http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/05...one-pregnancy/

Now that is nifty!

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http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/05...one-pregnancy/

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So I looked up "lithopedion" and found a picture of where they cut it in half! It's partly weird, gross, awesome, and I can't stop looking at it. I kinda wish there was a picture of it at a higher resolution...

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Reality can be stranger than fiction after all.

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When I worked retail I had a coworker do this. We all believed her cancer story and like one of the women in the article she also shaved her head. She would frequently take days off for "chemo treatments" and sometimes wore a bandana over her shaved head. We held a fundraiser for her raising thousands of dollars. The day our manager handed her the check was the last day anyone ever saw her again. She disappeared and we later found out she was a professional scam artist when the cops showed up looking for her.

Getting scammed out of money is awful enough but it's the ****ing with people's emotions and sympathies that gets me the most.

Wow, that's HORRIBLE. People blow me away sometimes.

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So I looked up "lithopedion" and found a picture of where they cut it in half! It's partly weird, gross, awesome, and I can't stop looking at it. I kinda wish there was a picture of it at a higher resolution...

I immediately had to look that up, so weird!

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Prepare to throw up in your mouth a little...

http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/05...one-pregnancy/

I've read that can happen to rabbits if they do the auto-abort too late or something.
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Reality can be stranger than fiction after all.

In Will Self's How The Dead Live, the main character dies so her lithopedian pops out. She carries it around in her pocket while it sings pop songs
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Yup and there's a lot of them, and for some reason it's almost always women, or at least all we hear about, i've never seen a story on a man that's done this, i've seen stories on some of those women never on the men. I wonder if all the people that do it have like the same mental or personality disorder or something.

i met a young man on a forum who tried to fool.the forum that his girfrien was ill. people sent him money, though he didn't ask for it. but it turned out that the girlfriend didn't exist. so, men do this too.
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I have heard of this before, unfortunately. When LiveJournal was popular there were lots of people who would pretend to have cancer. Many of them didn't ask for money, they just wanted the attention/sympathy.. it became so common that there were whole communities on there exposing cancer-pretenders.
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its pretty horrible when generous people get taken advantage of, but thats the risk involved if they send money to someone they dont really know all that much about

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Aw, I want a stone baby. They're so much easier to take care of than the non stone ones.

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Aw, I want a stone baby. They're so much easier to take care of than the non stone ones.

The risk of a live baby is to great to risk it.



I just made myself a little sad.
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You could still have a nice baby shower for an imaginary baby. And then have an imaginary miscarriage.

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You could still have a nice baby shower for an imaginary baby. And then have an imaginary miscarriage.

I'd rather just throw a party, cause then people wouldn't look at me askance when I got drunk.
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I'd rather just throw a party, cause then people wouldn't look at me askance when I got drunk.

Who are they to judge your imaginary pregnancy?

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Dear Rabbit, I am sorry to hear your news. I wish you well.

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