If you don't like beans, you don't have to eat them. Garbanzo beans and edamame do taste quite different from most other beans, and they're two of my favorites.
Refried beans are normally made with pinto or maybe kidney beans, and although I'll eat them, they're not my favorites. Have you tried white beans (navy, pea, or great northern)? You mentioned you think texture of refried beans is a problem, and in that case, I maybe black bean soup or pea soup might not appeal to you either.
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