If I may add: A lot of the discussion here became VERY confrontational, and borderline ad hominem. The thread got all kinds of crazy with people jumping all over each other, and making crude jokes. Add the explicit, detailed personal sex life stuff (I really didn't need to know that stuff. really), and there wasn't much that could be done to salvage it.
In the future:
Keep the personal bickering out of it.
Keep the dirty little details and crude language out of it.
Keep the deliberate thread derailing out of it.
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"Don't Dream It, Be It."
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