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on February 6th, 2010 at 10:07 PM

This time, I’ll talk about the non-fun stuff. Next time – snark! So stay tuned.
When dealing with questions about being a vegan or vegetarian, the first thing to determine is the motive of the asker.
Concerned parent? Assface “friend” looking to win an argument? Inquisitive stranger?
It makes a difference.
If the person asking is either honestly curious or legitimately concerned, please don’t be a jerk, okay? You’re giving veg*ns a bad name if you do. Then people think we’re all sarcastic and bitter because all we do all day is suck on lettuce and want nothing more than scarf a porterhouse.
Don’t sigh and roll your eyes, don’t get confrontational, don’t huff, smirk, or start slinging words like ignorant or lemming. Please?
And let me be clear, a friend or mother-in-law or parent asking questions out of concern is legitimate. Most people spend their whole lives hearing people need meat/dairy/eggs/animal products to be healthy. They see veg*ns as fringe fanatics. Some envision us handing out bloody slaughterhouse photos to kids for shock value, and bombing buildings in our spare time.
Do you blame them for being concerned? I don’t.
The industries that profit from human consumption of animal products are spending a lot of money to appear necessary. I mean, heck, I can’t watch TV without seeing ads for beef, chicken, and pork, or the new “Incredible, Edible, Egg!” ads. And how about the 200+ celebrity endorsements for the “Got Milk?” campaign?
I could go on endlessly about the ways these industries promote themselves, but that’s not really the point. The point is what we veg*ns eat – or, more specifically, what we DON’T eat – looks strange. And not only strange, it can easily appear unhealthy to people who haven’t done research. And why would they do research? They aren’t going veg*n. You are!
So how do you deal with the legitimate questions?
Simple: Answer them. Nicely. (I'm known for my novel ideas.)
Because here's the good news! There are answers for every single legitimate concern. Where we get enough protein, how we get “complete” proteins, how we get iron or B12, why we do it, if it’s hard, if it’s expensive, etc.
And if you DON’T know where we get
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