View Full Version : sick of non veg guys...just want someone more like me
VAhippie
May 17th, 2006, 06:14 PM
so im the only veg basicly in my school....AND i mean not to sound (whoreish)
or something but ive had lots of boy friends..none veg. and i just want a veg one already haha and it seems like i just cant find one here in VA...it pretty much sucks.
P.S just to let you guys in on something...whether you have a girl friend OR boyfriend whos not a veg...let me just tell you from experience...
SECOND HAND MEAT IS JUST AS TERRIABLE,GROSS,AND UTTERLY NASTY AS EATING IT YOURSELF.
see id be better off with veg on veg kisses.:kiss:
hippiechick
May 17th, 2006, 07:26 PM
i know how that is. why are so few guys veg*ns? and going to school in the biggest redneck town on earth doesn't really help. ive managed to turn a few friends veg and hoping that if/when i get a boy/girlfriend i will convert em as well :devil:
and yeah, kissing onmi's after they eat is one of the grossest things ever :spew:
animallover7249
May 17th, 2006, 10:12 PM
Kissing anyone after they eat is nasty. I wouldn't want a veggie second hand into in my mouth any more then a piece of stake. Once food is placed into somesones mouth it stays there...
I have also noitced that many guys just arent veg, and the ones that are seem to be taken! Or...just not intersted in me (and im not surprised by that last part)
I have converted alot of female friends veggie...and some guys have 'cut back' on meat, or only eat white meat (hey..its a start)...guys just seem to be harder to turn veg. I have turned my one friend mitch veg though,well he was veg once before but I helped him go back to being veg and was kinda his support system I guess you could say...
...anyway yes we need more veg guys
*Cringe*
May 18th, 2006, 01:42 AM
Yes, we do.
Secondhand meat is icky.
But... I love my boyfriend anyway. And he's agreed to cut back.
<-- Made out with him, despite him having just eaten pepperoni pizza at lunch.
Grossest thing ever? Nah. I enjoyed the kissing and he didn't TASTE particularly meaty. If he had, that'd be gross... but I probably wouldn't worry too much about it.
(I guess I'm an under-reactor)
Banshee Beat!
May 18th, 2006, 11:48 PM
I know where youre coming from! I have quite a few friends that are girls that are veggies, but most of them don't even care about animals, they just see it as a trend or some way to be different. I dont know any veggie guys my age. When i told this guy i liked i was pretty much vegan he started going off on this tangent about how animals were meant for food :( Definately a deal breaker. I'd love to meet someone with the same beliefs
VegWithEdge
May 18th, 2006, 11:57 PM
I've never met a veg*n dude so i really dont have a problem with the many omnivores around me. Its not like i'm eating meat when they kiss me... now i wont kiss a guy after hes eaten a big steak in front of me.
luisgarciadiaz
May 19th, 2006, 07:00 AM
The problem I've had with women is that most of the modest, decent, conservative ones are very devout christians (it sucks to live in the capital of the Bible Belt). The problem with that is that I'm agnostic, and that usually leads to confrontation. Most of the agnostic girls are not very modest, or quiet; which is the type that I'm looking for.
Xer
May 19th, 2006, 09:29 AM
i just want a veg one already
Sorry to say.. but good luck. With the number of young veg boys there are not and the number of young veg girls there are LOOKING for young veg boys... There isn't much for odds going your way.
I would focus on looking for someone you actually LIKE after you've gotten to know them, someone you will stay with for a long time. Don't look for a 'I need a boyfriend this second' guy, look for someone who will respect your views. And maybe after you've been together for a while you can have a discussion about why you are veg and maybe show him a video. If it changes his mind, fine. If not... well, it's up to you where you go from there.
Sugar_nd_Spice
May 20th, 2006, 06:51 PM
I've actually never met a vegetarian guy. I know plenty of girls who are veg*n but no boys :( It doesn't bother me anyways although it would be nice to meet some guys who are veg*n. My boyfriend I have now eats meat and it doesn't bother me and don't attack me but I've also kissed him after he's eaten meat too but I don't have a problem with that. I would never not kiss someone just because they'd 'just eaten meat'
strwbryfields42
May 23rd, 2006, 07:38 PM
The only veg*n guy I have met, is my cousin's husband =) other than that, can't say I know any veg*n men. Which is unfortunate.
Romy
May 24th, 2006, 09:47 AM
I want a veg man too. ugh. my last boyfriend tho use to brush and wash his hands atfer meat for me tho. .. but I want someone who just understands how I feel about animal rights.
yourXsoXsXe
May 31st, 2006, 05:41 PM
i should be feeling pretty lucky as a guy now who is vegan, but actually most girls i know find it crazy that a guy would care about animals or health god forbid to not eat meat so instantly u get written off as crazy by a lot of girls and guys are worse about it. although some girls like that i am but its incredibly hard to find a good veg*an girl here because i just havent been able to deal with meat eaters to much of a diffrence outside of friendship for me.
throw_aways
May 31st, 2006, 08:08 PM
wow. this plethora of vegetarian girls looking for a vegetarian guy should move to los angeles. i havent had a girlfriend in like 8 months! (and my last two ate meat, heh. though one of them turned veg riiiight at the end of our relationship and stayed that way)
i am a vegan. i'd actually say the number of veg girls to veg guys i know is preeeetty even, though its alittle heavier on the girls side. but i dont think thaaat many more girls are veg than guys. but if thats true...a couple of them should be near me!
the_technogoat
June 8th, 2006, 02:49 AM
i have heard good things about california in general, but i thought california was very polluted? i cannot stand factories, power plants, et cetera...i sometimes cry when i see all the smokestacks on the way to school in rural iowa.
i thought going to college (community) would help me meet friends and potential boyfriends who shared my compassion for animal rights and ecology, but i was quite wrong. you see, my school has a "beef education" and "swine education" center--you can guess what happens there. also, on "ecology day", the school gave away free hot dogs and soda--chemicals and slaughter. there are many hunters at my school who make jokes about deer jerky in class, which ends in hysterical laughter among the boys. to make things more awkward, my biology teacher was discussing how veg*ns "can't" get certain nutrients, and when he asked how many people in my class were vegetarian, i was the only person to raise my hand.
i am seriously doubting the prospect of finding a veg*n male in iowa that i am compatible with. ::sigh:: only two to eight more years, depending on my major, and tonzura koite! i need to be far away from here to ever find happiness.
kaileikehe
June 24th, 2006, 10:27 AM
I know exactly how you feel! Typical thing, happens all the time:
My boyfriend asks if I wanna hang out, I say yes, and he tells me they are all going out for pizza.
Well whoo de freakin hoo. It's not like he doesn't know I'm vegan.
Or he'll invite me over for dinner and they have steak.
VAhippie, what's funny is I'm in VA too, haha!
But I'm sure it's not just VA that has problems.
kaileikehe
June 24th, 2006, 10:28 AM
and tonzura koite
the_technogoat, do you watch Excel Saga? Haha
HandcuffedAngel
June 24th, 2006, 10:32 AM
I talk to a vegan male friend of mine ... though we don't date. Haha.
My boyfriend is actually considering going vegan. I am okay with carnivorous boyfriends as long as they are open-minded about me and how I eat and why I am vegan.
Also, he cooks. So he makes his own food. Lolz!
A lot of it has to do with respect for your significant other and an understanding of their own beliefs.
Good luck finding a man without meat!
curiousboy
June 26th, 2006, 12:18 AM
I turn veggie for a lot of reasons:
1; because I really like this girl....she's veggie.
2; I just want to lose pounds.
3; Love animals.
No matter what....she does not like me. I joined up Peta and ASPCA and started donating money and volunteering but nothing. I buy her candy, flowers ,took her out to the prom....became my valentine and gave her , her favorite Naruto headbands. Still nothing. Go out to the movies and talk about what she likes and her life. I don't get it. I even told her that I like her but she said lets be friends. Seven months of trying to hook up with her...I keep trying but I gave up. No matter what, im not going back to a meat eater because of her! NO WAY. Im staying like this for the rest of my life!
MJZ
June 26th, 2006, 03:58 AM
I can see its incredibly hard for vegan and vegitarian guys to find girls I have only been vegan for a short period of time and have been called gay several times for my "alternative lifestyle"
I think all these girls should come to my town! all we have here is a bunch of animal abusing meat eating dairy farm girls :(
Spaz
June 26th, 2006, 05:53 AM
the last vegetarian boyfriend i had, well.
basically, he sucked. he acted like he wanted to be praised for giving up meat, bitched out anyone who ate it, and acted like he was better then everyone else even though he used to eat meat everytime he ate when i met him. i wouldnt trade my quiet, meat-eating man for him, ever.
its kind of contradictory how people always want to be treated equally for their decisions but then they put such a high price on what other people eat?
i understand if you cant /stand/ being with someone who subjects to that kind of cruelty, but to be honest, if you find someone whos even /open/ to your beliefs you should feel lucky. lots of people dont even have that.
2headedorganic
June 26th, 2006, 06:53 PM
secondhand meat is gross.
veg guys are so difficult to find, and once you find them they've usually been scooped up by other veggies.
2headedorganic
June 26th, 2006, 06:55 PM
wow. this plethora of vegetarian girls looking for a vegetarian guy should move to los angeles.
ha, indeed. I bet we'd have better luck there.
curiousboy
June 28th, 2006, 11:10 AM
secondhand meat is gross.
veg guys are so difficult to find, and once you find them they've usually been scooped up by other veggies.
LOL. Im so sorry i laughed but everyone does that, well almost anyone which i mean girl or boy taking that girl or boy away. But hay , it's all about having alot of good friends and having a good life! Just like that music go "Don't worry, be happy!":bobo:
2headedorganic
June 29th, 2006, 06:19 AM
Haha
I'm definitely not worrying, just stating :D
Rahkoon
July 2nd, 2006, 01:17 PM
Well...
...
...my boyfriend's vegan ^^
*hehe*
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