there was this boy i went out with. he was my only real boyfriend. then he posted this. he sometimes speaks - waht am i talking about? he ALWAYS speaks in riddles.

could someone help me out? read this and tell me what he's saying. i cant decode his words.... and when i try i fail. i think it's directed at me



he says "distortion of reality" so it's NOT true? like it's all sarcasm? or it is...? i dont know.

just tell me what he means ok? please. it would help me out a lot.

he deleted me from his thing.... so i think it might mean the negative thing .....












This letter is written to a specific person. That person will remain unnamed and any refrences to specifics will just be a distortion of reality. But if that person reads this, and sincerly knows its directed torwards them, then I hope she takes it to heart and understands the hidden message.

I've stared at you from afar. I've looked into your eyes and became frozen. Phrases spoke from your lips were often of high critisism. Degrading me in any which way possible. You question and oppose me constantly. You are prone to getting upset when I attempt to get your attention, but when I sit in silence or walk in a seperate direction, you continue to condem me. What am I do you? Why does it matter so much? What's wrong with just forgetting everything in the past. The past means nothing, and you know me. All the past really means is that I know exactly what I'm going to do in the situation the next time; the same thing I did last time. I'll walk away before I come to you. I'll listen before I talk. I'll wait before I move. Maybe I've just lost track of everything. Memories of us still come to my mind, but then again so do the memories of others and myself, so that really doesn't make you special. You're not who I thought you are. ****, I never even thought you were anything, I just went along for the ride while the offer was available. But things will soon come to an end, as all things do. Communication will cease to exist between the two of us, and my memory will fade. Or at least I'd like to think it will, but those few thoughts I will keep inside my mind. A dream. That's all it is to me. Have you thought about what you were to me? What you are to me? I don't think highly of you. Don't you understand now? I'm a ****ing liar. I say things just to see how people react. And your reaction, hah, well it wasn't quite as I expected, but a reaction none-the-less. So stay away from me, and I will do the same to do. And if we do meet, don't expect me to acknowledge your existance. Don't expect me to welcome you with a smile.

On second though, maybe I will speak with you once more when I feel content within myself to do so, until then you're just a stranger. You don't know where your mind is at, but I'm not one to talk on that subject, but I'm also not one to continue any sort of relationship, verbal, physical, distance, electronical or written with you. I will soon say my final goodbye to you, and be on my way with my life.

Sometimes I would like to think it would work, but then I find myself back in reality and see how ****ing ignorant you really are. How the **** can someone be so ignorant, contradicting their own theories and beleifs? I mean, contradiction is normal, but your own theories and beleifs? Or maybe you just say what you want people to hear or not hear. Either way I'm done with it. If you attempt to speak with me, it will be as if speaking to the deaf.

Sweet dreams.

*Side Note: Just out of curiosity, I wonder how many people are reading this, and any thoughts or opinions or who the person is, I will not admit to who it is, and if you think it is yourself, please post a reply, it would be quite interesting to see your response, and could quite possibly change my mind if you intent to do so, if not respond in a way that would just make my actions quicker than planned.

there was this boy i went out with. he was my only real boyfriend. then he posted this. he sometimes speaks - waht am i talking about? he ALWAYS speaks in riddles.

could someone help me out? read this and tell me what he's saying. i cant decode his words.... and when i try i fail. i think it's directed at me

Hi, w2t. These are just my opinions, and I'm only guessing.



he says "distortion of reality" so it's NOT true? like it's all sarcasm? or it is...? i dont know.

just tell me what he means ok? please. it would help me out a lot.

I think he was trying to say that some of the details of the story have been changed to disguise or conceal who he is talking about. He does call himself a liar, so it is difficult to know whether anything he says can be believed.

I would say his post seems poorly written, contains many spelling errors, and is just generally a tirade striking out at you for no particular reason.

I am sorry that this fellow has been your only boyfriend, but you seem to be a pretty young woman and should be able to find another boyfriend. Pick one who will treat you with more kindness and courtesy. That's my advice.

Ummmm...this guy is pretty manipulative and not a nice person. People who use their words (written or spoken), to manipulate other people are particularly problematic. Especially those who disguise themselves as writers. The message is, "I am very intelligent and clever, and you are not."

In general, unless a person really turns his/her life around, this kind of thinking only gets more scewed and egomaniacal as a person ages. Meaning, this guy isn't going anywhere where you'd like to 'go along for the ride.'

B

Ummmm...this guy is pretty manipulative and not a nice person. People who use their words (written or spoken), to manipulate other people are particularly problematic. Especially those who disguise themselves as writers. The message is, "I am very intelligent and clever, and you are not."

In general, unless a person really turns his/her life around, this kind of thinking only gets more scewed and egomaniacal as a person ages. Meaning, this guy isn't going anywhere where you'd like to 'go along for the ride.'

B

I agree. He is trying to manipulate you. Anyone who speaks in riddles is afraid of commitment. They can always go back and say "No, thats not what I meant, you just thought I meant that." They also look to control you because you will hear what you want to hear. If he really knew you and felt comfortable, he would say whats on his mind without trying to confuse you. Do yourself a favor and stay away from this guy. Find a guy who tells it to you straight and doesn't muddy things up.

I'd drop him like a hot potato.

I agree. He is trying to manipulate you. Anyone who speaks in riddles is afraid of commitment. They can always go back and say "No, thats not what I meant, you just thought I meant that." They also look to control you because you will hear what you want to hear. If he really knew you and felt comfortable, he would say whats on his mind without trying to confuse you. Do yourself a favor and stay away from this guy. Find a guy who tells it to you straight and doesn't muddy things up.

he does that! says that that's not what he meant

sometimes id get sad (i dont yell at him or anything i just get sad and he senses it) and then he says oh that's not what i meant. and then he says something so innocent/logical it makes me feel guilty for thinking that he could say anything negative to me.

oh, we havnt been together for a while. we broke up. but we were still talking

i guess he finally saw that i wasnt going to go out with him again.

my psychocology teacher said something to the calss - if he makes you cry more then laugh, maybe it's time to reconsider the relationship.

so that's waht i did.

he does that! says that that's not what he meant

sometimes id get sad (i dont yell at him or anything i just get sad and he senses it) and then he says oh that's not what i meant. and then he says something so innocent/logical it makes me feel guilty for thinking that he could say anything negative to me.

oh, we havnt been together for a while. we broke up. but we were still talking

i guess he finally saw that i wasnt going to go out with him again.

my psychocology teacher said something to the calss - if he makes you cry more then laugh, maybe it's time to reconsider the relationship.

so that's waht i did.

I have a similar saying as your psychology teacher that I use. I tell the boyfriends of my little sisters that if they make her cry, I will make them cry. :)

thank you very much for your responses.

i really appreciate them. thank you. :)

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