I don't know how to explain this but here it goes. Right i have a mate and she is one of my very best mates but lately she has ben bitching. She is called mel and has a mate called gemma that goes to another school. I have not got a problem with that but mel has been slagging gemma off to me wen ever she got the chance, then the next weekend mel went round gemma's and slept there.

I said hang on you didn't like her. But she said i know then the next day she came upto me and said that gemma hated me and said that Gemma said if i called her a cow again she will hit me ,but i didn't even call her a cow mel did so now mel has been saying things to her that isn't true because i don't even know gemma.

Then mel said that gemma had made up a nick name 4 me corrosponding with my sir name and said dat i was posh even though she had only seen the back off me but mel must of told gemma my sirname after gemma started slagging me off. It is really annoying me, it seems as if mel has been slagging me off to gemma like what she does to me about gemma.

I tryed to change the subject to sumthink else but she kept changing it bk and any feelings. What shall i do please tell me i'm desperate here.

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yea but no but yea but no but.....
seriously though, who needs 'friends' like these? make some new friends, then they'll feel silly & you'll have a buddy you can trust :)

I hate when people do that, I remember back in jr highschool at lunch we had to sit with the same people in our 1st class and there was this girl I didn't get along with at all! Once she told this other girl in our class who always got made fun of I was making fun of her (even though I wasn't) she was just trying to make her feel bad. Ok well to make a long story short, I just had to get over it and move on with my life. I know it might be a bit harder for you because you consider them your "friends" but you don't want friends like those!

When I was 13, all of my friends turned against me for no appararent reason. I should have stopped being friends with them before then when they started to bully another of my friends who wasn't included in that friendship group. The point I'm making is that your 'friend' sounds exactly like my 'friends' so you should just explain to her why you don't like her anymore and leave her alone. All teenage girls are bitchy at some point, and unfortunately you are at the receiving end of this bitchiness. I wish I had made other friends before my 'friends' turned against me because now I have social anxiety disorder and couldn't make friends if I tried. I haven't had any friends for 4 1/2 years now. I'm not saying that this will happen to you, I'm just warning you that if you don't stop hanging around with her, she might start bullying you.

yea but no but yea but no but.....

This is exactly what I was thinking !!!!!!!!

Good luck, I hope you get this sorted out.