Boy Trouble.

[Romy]

Hello.
ok I like this guy , Dave, and like he was gone for 6 weeks, but he called,and he just came back today, and like, i donno it seems like he called lots of girls, but maybe they are just friends? me and him have a date friday, Im really nervous, cause this is the 1st guy i really liked in awhile, Should Ijust ask if hes looking for a long term relationship? like i dont mean like a really long one, but a couple months, like what do I say to get the point across, that im not looking for a sexual relationship...

Thanks <3

[lizzzard]

see how the date goes first..

don't spring something like that on him. he might not respond too well..

[Formerbaboon]

Definitely don't move too fast. Be yourself on the date, and at the end of the evening just give him a hug, or light kiss, and be on your way. Don't talk about having a relationship with him, because you don't really know what he wants. And hey, if you guys end up going steady (like after a few dates), then you can make it clear you don't want to have sex. And NEVER EVER let someone pressure you into sex. Its your body, your descision. But I guarantee you, if you move too fast, and then y'all break up, it will be a hundred times harder.

[Sunset16]

^ what they said :-)

[Romy]

ya, I dont think the dates gonna be like i thought anymore, cuz he asked another girl on a date this weekend and I dono I guess I was thinking too fast, Im still gonna go to the play with him, but , hes not gonna kiss me. lol.
-Rome