Should I say something or not?

[ObeyMelissaNow]

Well, last weekend I ran into an old buddy of mine from school, when I seen him I my whole body was shaking. He was checking me out , i know the signs that he likes me, we hung out all the next day and laughed. Im one of those shy flirters i might have given him mixed signals. Well, i dont know if i should tell him that i like him. Ii dont want to ruin our friendship that we have, we've known each other since the 6th grade. We talked on the phone ever since then and hes coming over tomorrow... I don know what to do, should i remain cautious?:smitten:

[carrot]

If you know that he's giving off signs that he likes you, then what's the harm? It might be something you'll regret if you don't do it.

[ObeyMelissaNow]

Alright, when we was walking back to his car so he could put his cigarettes back.. I asked me out of the blue "i think we should go do it".. I laughed for a moment and i asked if he was kidding he said yeah... I mean Im totally attracted to him sexually.. But that moment stands out and confuses the hell out of me..

[VeganArtist]

That is scary.

[marina13]

imho, if he said that to you, you can safely assume that he's physically attracted to you. however, that has nothing to do with the emotional side of things or a potential beginning of a relationship. just talk to him about how you feel.

[ObeyMelissaNow]

Thanks for your help everyone. I just got done talking to him, here comes the biggie tomorrow!

[Azygous]

ask him out on a date :) it is hard, especially for shy people like us, but you'll feel better afterwards i'm sure, and if you dont' you will regret it and suffer longer.

but remember live in the present, and try not to get ahead of yourself. i've done that before, gone a couple first dates with some amazing people, but scared them away because i got too attached too fast.