So, is there really such a thing as chemistry between 2 people, or is it just a bunch of crap?
I know for sure that there are people out there whom I have felt what i could "chemistry" with before...
One of those people happens to be my ex-boyfriend, whom I have recently began spending time with again. I never really believed, or even understood the idea of chemistry before I met him over 4 years ago, but I know chemistry is something we have always had together.
Anyways, this thread isn't about me and Alex, it's about the whole idea of chemistry between 2 people....
what do you guys think about the idea? Have you ever been with someone or gotten to know someone whom you just had undeniable chemistry with?
I find it's nearly impossible to explain the feeling, but I guess it kinda goes along with the whole "did you feel a 'spark'?" idea...
What are your opinions on this?
I just finished reading the thread about how Froggy and Tofu got together, and it sounds like they have (what I would call) amazing chemistry with one another (i'm happy for you guys, btw)...

I think it exists. I know it does between myself and The_Gazumper. There is just this undeniable attraction (I don't really mean the physical kind, although that's there, too. I mean more like... gravity. You're being pulled towards this person, and you can't help it), and we just fit each other so perfectly.

It's something that is so hard to explain in words. You just know it in your heart, and when you see two others with this "chemistry", you know that they have it. You just recognize it.

1988, eh? Give it some time. I've met a lot of women in their 20's that never really had that feeling before, and then later told me they understood what it was like once they met the right person. Yes, it exists!

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I just finished reading the thread about how Froggy and Tofu got together, and it sounds like they have (what I would call) amazing chemistry with one another (i'm happy for you guys, btw)...

Awwwwwww...... Thanks. (*hugs you*)

I did not read your entire post first. (*shakes a finger and tsks at himself*) Thanks... You're right, and I think you will experience it one day too. If you believe in God, talk to Him about it and tell Him how much you desire it. Even though I've never seen anything in the Bible that says He makes people in pairs, I have a hard time not believing that.

I just finished reading the thread about how Froggy and Tofu got together, and it sounds like they have (what I would call) amazing chemistry with one another (i'm happy for you guys, btw)...

Awww... Thanks...
YES!! I really think there is such a thing as "chemstry" and yes, when it happens to you, you WILL recognise it - it goes way beyond just "physical" stuff too...
There is just this undeniable attraction (I don't really mean the physical kind, although that's there, too. I mean more like... gravity. You're being pulled towards this person, and you can't help it), and we just fit each other so perfectly. What she said... EXACTLY!!!

Good luck and much happiness, KT_E_M!!!!

Yes, I believe in chemistry. And yes, it is very hard to explain. I've been with my husband for 18 years, and we both felt a "spark" the minute we met. And after all these years, it's still there. I can't imagine my life with anyone else.

i used to think the idea of a certain "chemistry" between two people was kind of.. eh, strange, i guess. but i completely understand it now :)

it is all about the *spark*
I dated many people and I sware if they fell off the earth it wouldn't have mattered to me. I think there are different kinds of sparks though..like I have felt a strong sexual spark with people, but not the emotional one.
When you find someone who you just gell with on every level and have that undeniable chemistry, that is really special.
I honestly have only felt a true connection....chemistry with one person.
He is just like me, but a guy...I guess I just want to date myself.
(For some reason though, I never called myself back...I guess I am a b*tch.)

Oh yeah, he is my complete match, but he likes sports alot, which is lame.
That is one good reason to go the lesbian, in my personal opinion.
That, and extending your wardrobe.

I must admit, I've attempted "going the lesbian" myself but it always backfires in the end. Shame, really.