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shadow-panther
08-02-05, 04:48 AM
I've been up to a pretty small amount of stuff this summer, and feeling a little bit lonely. I'm not sure how to jump start my life again, nothing much has been feeling quite right..I'll be a senior soon at my high school. eeps. I need some people i can talk to, but there don't seem to be many right now..

And, last year I went out with a friend of mine for many months, he eventually dumped me since we were growing apart. About a month ago, he emailed me saying that (along with a bunch of other things, this really is paraphrasing) that since song called hoy te amo reminded him of us, and elaborating... (that means "today I love you" ) I keep meaning to talk to him about it, but it's hard to know what to say, or be that open about things. gahhhh. : ( This is prolly a pretty poor explanation of whatever seems to be troubling me , but there you have it, I'm tired. : P Later guys. ~t

Starblossom
08-02-05, 07:00 PM
ah I think I see what you're talking about. there aren't many of my friends around this summer either. but I'm so busy working that I don't really notice. you could get a job (if you don't have one) and work a lot to keep yourself busier, and you'll meet people at work. Or you could see what sort of clubs/groups there are where you live and see if there's something you'd like to join? Or even you could sign up for a yoga or kickboxing class or something. That's what I do if I feel like I need something new and interesting in my life. As for the guy thing...sorry, but I'm not entirely sure what you're talking about, lol. I am pretty tired myself. All I know is that I dated the same guy twice and it was a disaster. I don't really believe in giving second chances....if that's what you two are thinking of doing, that is just my opinion. But it is up to you of course. Just as long as you don't date someone because you are lonely...that is never a good idea. Anyways I hope this has helped. I have been where you are, so I totally feel for you! Take care.

Ilikequorn
08-05-05, 05:48 PM
Oh I see what you mean I don't have any friends that I spend time with outside of college either try joining some sort of club or something- I know it sounds pretty corny but it is a great way to meet new people.
And also you don't have much longer left at high school anyway it goes past really fast. :-)

CountessKerouac
08-06-05, 01:06 AM
Holy crap...I am going through the exact same thing right now! Except I effed it up and I responded to his email kind of harshly and he took back his asking of me back out. Now, I think he's angry with me and we're not really talking. Good luck!

Sokara
08-06-05, 03:34 AM
If it didn't work out with you too the first time, than perhaps you should evaluate those reasons alone and together and have a candid talk about why it didn't, and why it would be different now. Just my two cents.

CountessKerouac
08-06-05, 10:31 PM
^^^what I should have done totally. Although I didn't want to go back out with him.