This may sound really odd, especially since the person I am thanking will never read this, but bear with me.
Quick Update: My bf of almost one year went to Europe a couple of months ago. Our relationship had been having its problems. His hero had just died, and I have problems with depression. I wasn't completely happy but decided it would be cruel to leave after his role model had just left him. I assumed most of our problems stemmed from his grief and that he would be able to move on eventually. That was not the case. He went away to Europe and cheated on me. I found out from my friends before he returned. When he told me about it he basically refused to accept responsibilty. He blamed my problems with depression (his ex had the same issues) for his infidelity. Its been a month or so since we broke up.

I'd just like to thank the other girl. If you hadn't been there we never would have broken up. I would have continued on in this unhappy relationship with a partner who didn't respect me. The downward spiral would have continued because I would have assumed that's what I was worthy of. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Now I know I am worthy of love. I didn't deserve to be treated the way I was during that relationship; thank you for showing me that. I really hope you two can make it work because we all deserve happiness, even me.

That has been my crazy ramblings.

Awwww I'm sorry you were in a bad relationship. :hug: I hope things get better for you really fast.

Things are looking up; for the first time in my life I actually have self-confidence.

:hug: Wow.... Don't know what to say to the situation, except perhaps, it's funny how multiple terrible things happening to a person can actually lead to a good outcome. I am glad that you are so much better now. :)

It seems that you have a positive outlook on the situation. I admire your bravery to admit your truths. I think you're right, you deserve happiness.

I just wanted to wish you happiness that makes you smile so much your mouth hurts, and that you laugh until you don't think you can laugh anymore. I hope you find love, first within yourself which can be all encompassing, and then I hope you find someone who makes you feel happy and as wonderful as you are. I hope you never feel the need to be 'completed' or that the one ever fills a hole in your life, but that when you find love, it just makes your happiness and love (for life?) shine even more brightly.

Man, I'm beginning to think this is over the top, but your post touched me, and its truly beautiful. (I'm a week and a half out of a break up [that I initiated] with someone who didn't treat me right)

It seems as if things worked out for the best. I don't know what else to offer except a :hug:

You have an amazing attitude! Many could learn from you! :-) I hope you feel better soon :-)

Thank you all for your kind words. Skyla your post especially touched me. I don't think what you wrote is over the top. I hope that you find all that you wished for me in your life as well.