DeathOfDecadenc
January 24th, 2005, 12:12 AM
i really need some advice! i posted this in the relationships forum, but it would be nice for people around my age to please give me any advice at all if you have it!!! pleassseeeee...
so after two years of pushing guys away i finally stopped focusing on it and actually met a guy! we totally clicked, and we were "together" but not yet going out. but you could tell we would. also to make matter worse we were intimate. anyways one night he was at my place and he had to leave to go pick up beer for his friends (we had just fininshed having sex). he asked if i wanted to come back to his place after. i said maybe and he said he would call me. anyways that was at 11, and at 1:00 i called him and he didnt pick up. he calls the next day at 4 in the afternoon to tell me that he had a long talk with his friend (his roommates ex) and they are now dating. i was like are you joking?? i am horribly hurt. i have been single for two years, but recently i had been sooo lonely, and i was soo happy that i had finally opened up to somebody and liked somebody again etc. im so hurt. i really dont want to dwell on this, and let it stop me from meeting guys again etc. any advice at all...im so upset
so after two years of pushing guys away i finally stopped focusing on it and actually met a guy! we totally clicked, and we were "together" but not yet going out. but you could tell we would. also to make matter worse we were intimate. anyways one night he was at my place and he had to leave to go pick up beer for his friends (we had just fininshed having sex). he asked if i wanted to come back to his place after. i said maybe and he said he would call me. anyways that was at 11, and at 1:00 i called him and he didnt pick up. he calls the next day at 4 in the afternoon to tell me that he had a long talk with his friend (his roommates ex) and they are now dating. i was like are you joking?? i am horribly hurt. i have been single for two years, but recently i had been sooo lonely, and i was soo happy that i had finally opened up to somebody and liked somebody again etc. im so hurt. i really dont want to dwell on this, and let it stop me from meeting guys again etc. any advice at all...im so upset