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Wishuponastar
April 25th, 2009, 03:33 AM
My Gram took care of my grandfather for many years. (He had Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, and Cirrohis of the liver) He required so much care that my Gram's house became a cluttered mess. In November, he passed away. This just added to my Gram's depression and she really has been neglecting the house. I moved in with them around September and I have slowly been going through the house, room by room, organizing and cleaning what I can. Keep in mind, most of this stuff has not been replaced since they moved in. It has suffered years of cigarette smoke damage(she does not smoke anymore) as well as the damage incurred from 2 children, 4 grandchildren, and numerous pets. I would like some tips on a few projects:

1. I tore down all the old wallpaper in the dining room, hallway, and living room. It was cracking and falling down. Is there anything I can do with the wallpaper? I hate to just throw it away, but I cannot think of any ideas.

2. I finally convinced her to start going through his old clothes. We were thinking about donating them to a local thrift store; however, I am open to other suggestions.

3. Tore up the carpet in most of the rooms. It was as old as my mom and very dirty. I don't think she ever got it steam cleaned. My grandfather and the animals have had many accidents on the carpets. I really do not think that I can use it for anything.

4. There was horrible cork tiles on my Gram's bedroom wall. They have been collecting dust and who knows what else. When I removed the tiles, there was a hard glue stuck to the wall. Does anyone know a safe way to get this off?

5. Ripped up the bathroom tile and replaced it. I'm thinking mosaic...

6. My Gram has saved every bill and receipt she has ever gotten(I swear). The are all piled up in boxes...what should I do with these??? She agrees that she does not need anything that is more than 5 years old. Also, we must have hundreds of rubber bands(from newspapers) and twisty ties (from bread). She grew up in the Depression so I understand she was taught to save, but it's ridiculous...what to do with all this unneccessary stuff?

7. There are years worth of my grandfather's prescription meds in the cabinet...what do we do with the old pills. Some of which have been expired for mannyyy years. I am saving some of the pill bottles for dried herbs, but I don't know what to do with the rest.

I am also trying to spend as little money as possible while also trying to make our house a "green house". I have done little things like putting a brick in the toilet and changing all the lightbulbs. I realize that a lot of this stuff can probably not be reused, but I am trying to come up with creative ideas. I posted here, because you guys seem to come up with the most creative and useful ideas. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

cinders7
April 25th, 2009, 03:49 AM
Not sure where you are but old pill bottles and contents can be returned to the pharmacy for disposal

If the wall paper is any good it could be donated to a local nursery for craft projects

Homeless shelters would also be grateful for donated clothes aswell as shoes

Marie
April 25th, 2009, 09:00 AM
4. There was horrible cork tiles on my Gram's bedroom wall. They have been collecting dust and who knows what else. When I removed the tiles, there was a hard glue stuck to the wall. Does anyone know a safe way to get this off?



Steam it?

Beachbnny
April 25th, 2009, 09:29 AM
I am out the door in two minutes but wanted to reply and say that I think you're amazing for helping your grandmother like this. I lost both of mine early and miss them terribly. Your a good granddaughter :)

hoodedclawjen
April 25th, 2009, 10:12 AM
if your gran is a sewing type gran, and sentimental, perhaps she could keep some of her husbands favourite clothes items by making sweaters into cushions, and shirts/fabric items into a patchwork throw. sometimes its nice to feel like you have a piece of someone around after they're gone, and being wrapped up in something that once wrapped them up is a bit like getting a hug from them.

the old prescription drugs need to go back to a pharmacy for proper safe disposal. don't chuck them in a bin or flush them- they could get eaten by an animal or into the water table. if you take them to a chemist in a bag they'll get rid of them properly for you. by all means take pills out of the bottles or jars and recycle or re-purpose those though.

Wishuponastar
April 26th, 2009, 08:41 PM
Update: I heard that acetone is one of the only ways to get the glue off the walls, but I'm not crazy about using it. Marie, What do you mean by steaming it? Beach Bunny, thank you! I know she is happy that I am there to help. I love being able to also. Hoodedclawjen, I actually am going to make her a quilt for her bed out of some of his old clothes that I saved. :) I took all the pill bottles and pills back to the pharmacy today. They assured me that they would be disposed of/recycled properly.

Beachbnny
April 26th, 2009, 09:15 PM
Now that I have a second to reply I've got a few answers that might be helpful :)


With the carpet and wallpaper, I think you just gotta chuck it. The wallpaper is cracking, you said, so I can't see much use there. If parts of it are ok, you might be able to use it as shelf liner, depending on how clean it is. You may be able to recycle the carpet here (http://www.carpetrecovery.org/waste.php). They have a couple in your state.

There are some good answers here (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080214212404AAhlBM2) about recycling the rubber bands. I think the twisty ties might have to go. You can save a few to help in your garden if you want. And most of the bills can be shredded and recycled too, I'd bet.

HTH!

Wishuponastar
April 26th, 2009, 09:22 PM
The wallpaper really is wayy too dirty and smoke-filled to use as shelf liners, but that is a great idea! I am going to look into the carpet website you posted...hopefully they will be able to help. I think I will leave a note asking the paperboy if he can reuse the rubber bands :) You had a lot of great ideas! Thank you so much!

Marie
April 27th, 2009, 09:03 AM
Update: I heard that acetone is one of the only ways to get the glue off the walls, but I'm not crazy about using it. Marie, What do you mean by steaming it?

http://www.amazon.com/Wagner-Products-282018-1-Gallon-Wallpaper/dp/B0009XEL4O

It works on hard to remove wallpaper so maybe it'll work on the glue.